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Written by: Raymond Fohjem

Why most youths date

Why some youths date

Youths are in the vulnerable period of life called the bloom of youth. During this period, they may feel powerful surges of sexual desire. Nothing is wrong with this as it's just part of a growing up person.

But therein lies a big problem with teenage dating because during this same period, they turn to get involve in dating as a means to satisfy their sexual desires.

But this article won’t be talking about the consequences - but the reasons why almost all youths tend to find much pleasure in dating. Why are they dating? What are they thinking? Whom do they want to date? These are some of the questions I’d be talking in this article today.

But before I proceed, I want you to know that there are many factors that can influence youths to start dating but below are some of the main causes among 75% of youths today.

Why other youths date

  • Social programming: One example maybe when, from left to right, everyone around is talking about date. In school they’re talking about date. Friends are talking about dating appointment to catch. All these factors help to torture the minds of most youths.
  • Self-desiresAlso, others date as a result of self-desires, warmth, affection, unwanted situations. Also, lack of company has been one of the reasons why some youths date in order to attain their comfort zone again.
  • They don’t want to be different For some youths, they’re somehowpressured to date because they don't want to be perceived differently especially in front of those who do. For this reason, they strive to do anything in order to keep things going.
  • Loneliness: Loneliness, staying away from loved ones may cause some to date since they need the company of someone. However, what justification could it be between two people of the opposite sex spending lot of time together other than to investigate the possibilities of marriage? In the long run, dating for any other purpose is likely to result in fun.
  • Company with the opposite sex:Based on psychology, the more company a person has with the opposite sex, the more his sexual desires grow. For example, When Boris started dating Laura, they didn’t even hold hands. They just wanted to enjoy the company of each other. As time goes on, they started holding hands and kissing each other. Boris admitted that "This created within me a strong anxiety for sex. It affected my thinking to the point that, I wanted to be with Laura not just to talk, but to hold her, touch her, and kiss her. I was literally going crazy with passion."

Final say on why most youths date

As you can see, there are many reasons that can cause youths to start dating. Although there are other minor reasons, I decided to write on the above points because those are the ones that hit most youths today. In every 7 youths, 5 were influenced by the above factors.

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