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Signs of lack of self-esteem

Signs of lack of self-esteem

Do you know that many people unconsciously live with lack of self-esteem? When I started studying self-esteem and self-confidence, I discovered that they are many people out there who believed they are confident and self-esteem when in reality, they are far from that.

As I started carrying out series of researches on this topic, I also came to realized that many of them don’t really know they lack self-esteem. I also came to discovered that one of the major reasons why some people still believe they’re self-esteem and confident when they are not is highly due to their false belief systems.

I also came to understand that instead of fighting this false belief, they tend to seek for false means and ways that justify and confirm their false beliefs.

Signs of lack of self-esteem

But today in this article, I am going to explain some of the ways and things that people unconsciously do that portrait the lack of self-esteem in them. But before I do that, I want you know that some of these methods are backed by deep research and human psychology.

  • They try to please everyone: One of the easiest ways to spot out someone suffering from self-esteem is that they try to please almost everyone. Most people who lack self-esteem equally fear criticism. So, in order for them to be on the safe side, they tend to please almost anyone to avoid criticism. But if they had discovered their skills or understood who they are, they would not have tried to seek acceptance.
  • Afraid to start new task: Another way by which you can spot out someone who lacks self-esteem is that, you will notice that they usually afraid to start or do new things highly because most of them doubt their own selves. They believe starting something new will be a centre for attention and that’s also the same reason why most students suffering from lack of self-esteem usually don’t like to be noticed in the classroom.
  • Lack of self-trust: Do you know that people who lack self-esteem tend to doubt even their own selves? It maybe somehow difficult to believe but it’s totally real. Have you ever seen someone after doing something tries to get feedbacks from friends and relatives? This is also a sign of lack of self-esteem, else he would not have needed somebody recommendation after completing the whole process, right? That’s fair enough.
  • Talk in low tune: If you discovered that someone lacks self-esteem, another factor which you will also noticed about him is that he tends to speak in a low tune especially among strangers or in public. They unconsciously do so in order to avoid others from hearing them and this portrays a sign of lack of self-esteem.
  • They talk less: If you know someone who usually talks very well and suddenly became reluctant or start shivering in talking when among people, then know that he or she is no different. But be careful! It could also be as a result of shyness or lack of enough knowledge of the present topic at hand. The probability that anything other than that is lack of self-esteem is very high.

As you can see from the above mentioned, there are many ways in which you can spot out someone suffering from self-esteem. Even in a first meeting, you can still do that.

So, all you have to do is to take a closer watch at the person and see if he or she matches some of the above mentioned, right?

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