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Long distant relationship’s advices

Long distant relationship’s advices

I decided to come up with this article this morning because of a mail I got from one of my readers. I can’t recall the full details but the mail was focused on her difficulties in keeping an intimate relationship with her distant partner. Instead of addressing her case personaly, I knew they're others in this situation. For this, I decided to come up with something that could not only be read by her, but others as well.

Many people have been able to keep a long distant relationship successfully, but still they’re still others like her who never managed to have a single one going as planed. Long distant relationship can at times bring disappointment if we fail to follow the right procedures.

In most cases, this happens when someone embarks on it without having any clue how the process looks like as well as not wanting to follow the steps of successful distant couples. This is the same reason why most long distant relationships fail before you know it.

Why most long distant relationships fail?

>When a person moves to another state/city/country, his relationship is likely to become weak if the spirit of communication is lacking. This happens not because he doesn’t love his partner but because the relationship is suffering from poor communication and intimacy. As a result, it never takes long before the relationship finally collapse.

Any form of distant relationship where communication is lacking is bound not to succeed. They’re many reasons that can lead to relationship termination but the common cause to have an idea is based on how the partners communicate. This aspect of communication is very important in any relationship because this is what makes the difference between partners.

Long distant relationship’s advices

Yes, it’s very true that at times we move from one area to another especially when the circumstances are beyond our means, but what is not normal is when our relationships suffer at the expense of this. Today, I’m going to explain how long distant relationship can be carried out successful even when the partners only see each other occasionally. Below are some points to take note of:

  • Always update your partner : When carrying such relationship you also agree that you will share your life experiences. That is, by keeping your partner updated of your new found friends and how you spend your spare time with others etc.
  • Remember important dates: People like to know that you care enough as to remember their names, birth dates, and important dates in their lives. Therefore, if you can remember to always send wishes to your partner, he/she will believe that you care much thus, this process builds trust in the relationship.
  • How do you communicate? The way you’ll have to communicate with your partner is different from how you do with a friend. For example, if you keep writing him without useful or heart touching content, you’ll just be reminding him that you have an email address and nothing more since the content is blank in mind (at least, that’s better than none). Therefore, won't it make sense when communicating with your distant partner to include romantic points, mentioning your love, how you are feeling without him, wish you were with him, your sweet dreams, hopes for the future together etc.?
  • Close and closer: What I meant by closer and closer is nothing more than having a live chart and exchanging of pictures because with these steps, you are not only updated by his voice but also on his present looks. By also calling and mailing, you will not only be programming his mind not to forget you but on the other hand straightening the relationship.
  • Your daily activities: When carrying such relationship you also agree that you will share your life experiences, which are, by keeping your partner updated of your newfound friends and how you spend your spare time etc. By updating him is just like being with him.
  • Physical update: What I mean here by physical update is nothing more than having a live chart at times or the exchange of pictures. With this step, you’ll not only be updated by his/her voice as with the case of phone, but you’ll also have a clear view of their present looks and fashion. You can still keep your relationship going by phone or mailing but physical update happens to be a strong bond. With this step you’ll not only be programming his/her mind not to forget you, but on the other hand’ straightening the relationship.

Final say on long distant relationship’s advices

These are some of the things that some people don’t consider and get stuck on the way. I know of many people including friends who managed to successfully keep a distant relationship going until when they came together as before.

Some of the experiences I mentioned above were drawn from their situations. So in order to carry out any form of relationship, you should try taking into consideration some of these factors, right?

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