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Written by: Raymond Fohjem

How to win a verbal fight

How to win a verbal fight

This article isn't encouraging verbal fight but acting as some kind of tools when the need arises. This is because no matter how hard you try some people will still push you verbal fight.

That's why it's important you learn how to win a verbal fight in order to be on the safe side.

In this article I'm going to show you how you can avoid it and how you can easily win a verbal fight without doing much.

Below are some practical and workable steps that are going to act as some kind of support when people tend to fire assaults on you.

How to win a verbal fight

One of the easiest ways to win a verbal fight is not moving your opponent to range if you don't want it to linger long.

This means that if it's not something you want to do, don't involve his ego by firing some hideous words or cursing him. He might be forced to range or become very aggressive.

Another way on how to win a verbal fight is not launching a counter attack back to what he said but firing him in other directions.

If you start defending what he's saying, you’ll only be giving him breathing space and allowing him to understand your weaknesses to stand on them. So the only way out is not to become defensive but launching a counter attack right away on other angles.

Dissolve him and win him

If you've managed to do the above the next thing will be to dissolve him and emerge as a winner. In this case, you don't retaliate with words that are easy to be understood.

You rather fire words that need some processing before he understood their meaning. Let's say you're having a verbal fight with someone over a certain guy/girl and you say something like "Do you know why you're ugly?" or something like “I know why he/she doesn't love you” etc.

If you discovered a little pause in him, this is the point where you leave. This is because at this stage two things come into his mind. The first is; why you said so and the second is how he is ugly or why the person in question doesn't love him.

This is the dissolving stage because you've just paralyzed him. This is the point where you leave him in a state of confusion and by doing so, you've just planted a cursed seed in his mind and that's how you win a verbal fight.

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