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Written by: Raymond Fohjem

How to make people respect you

How to gain respect from people

Have you ever wondered why in our community some people are highly respected by the community? What makes them gain such respect? Do you know that respect is a combination of certain characters about one’s self coupled with past successes which make one to be respected?

In this article, I am going to tell you why some people gain much respect and how you can make people to respect you, right? But before I do that also want you to know that this process has to do with a little more effort than just what we sometimes think offhand.

How to make people respect you in society

In order for you to be respected, you have to do something unique. It does necessarily have to be something super natural, but something which is not that common among people or in your area. Have you noticed that most people who are highly respected in your community have something unique about themselves?

In the past Abdou was a young guy whom people neglected but he never worried probably because he knew he had nothing to offer to the society and so that was cool to him. He decided he will become a great person in life and so one sudden evening, the guy disappeared until the next 4years that he arrived town but this time, with a car and possesses many foreign goods.

When he arrived town everyone was anxious to know where he was and by the time he told them he had been to Britain, Australia and now just coming from Dubai, people’s perspectives about him now changed. Everyone gave him respect directly or indirectly. Those who never knew about this new occurrence were still neglecting him as before but by the time they were told, they all respected him and so he got a nick-name, ‘The Youngest.’

Why do you think made people respected Abdou? It’s very simple! Because, at an early age, he travelled around the world and managed to make good fortunes for himself and so got all the respect, right?

How you can also gain respect from people

In order to make people respect you, you don’t necessarily have to do what Abdou did. That was just his own way of gaining respect and you can possess yours in other directions.

For example, if you are a student and want to gain respect in class, then you have to do something unique and this is nothing more than performing well in the exam and that’s one of the main reasons why most intelligent students in class are not only respected by their classmates, but also by their teachers as well, right?

So, unlike success, respect can also be achieved. All you have to do is to excel on every area in your life till you succeed only then would you gain the desired respect.

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