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Written by: Raymond Fohjem

How to become popular

How to become popular among others

I decided to write on this topic because during my resent research on people and popularity, I came to discover that they are many people living with unwanted desires (not being popular) and at the same time, pretending to be very ok. This was difficult for me to discover among the few men and women I was trying to carry out the research with until when I told them to open up with me before some of them freed up their minds while others were still doubting their selves.

But when I made them believed I have one phrase which will make them become very popular among others (which was impossible), they started being anxious to get the phrase from me. At this point, this made me believed they were unpopular but at the same time pretending to be ok and being satisfied with their selves.

Since then I came to realised that almost everyone wants to be popular and in this article, I am going to show you some of the ways in which you can become popular among your mates or friends without doing so much.

How to become popular

Becoming popular in your society, at job side or even in the school is not something which cannot be done. All you need to do is to study the people around to know what can impress them and start matching that pattern. You can still do this by igniting laughter from them, making simple jokes or appearing to be some kind of entertainment to them.

That is why most of the famous actors, musicians, comedians or stars in general become very popular. They become popular not because they were born to become stars but because they managed to act as some kind of entertainment to us and so we tend to like them and they became stars, right? Now, what about you?

In order for you to become popular, you don’t necessarily have to do what these stars did. There are many ways in which you can become popular. You can just start by grapping many friends for yourself more than anyone else and before you know, you become popular since everyone knows and likes you. You don’t need some kind of magic to do this; all you have to do is to learn how to socialize more than before. In this case, all you need to do is to improve on certain habits about yourself.

How to become popular without doing much

Do you know that it’s actually possible to become popular without doing much? Way back when I was in college, Promise was a guy who badly wanted to be popular but saw no way to do this since most of his efforts were unsuccessful. I guess his difficulties in becoming popular came as a result that most of the students’ criteria never matched his but he badly wanted to be famous in school and especially, in the class.

So, he started doing some hideous things just to call other students attention. Sometimes he might even ask some kind of questions that ignited the whole class to laugh. Within few weeks, Promise became so popular that he enrolled for the class prefect with other students. To my greatest surprise he won with the highest vote from the class and made himself to the top just like that.

As you can see from Promise’s case, he decided to become popular and actually succeeded without doing so much because he made up his mind to and you can also do the same in other ways, right? There are many ways in which one can become popular. All you need to do is to start doing things which call people’s attention towards you. Once you find a way of doing this, in less than no time, you will be highly known than before.

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