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Written by: Raymond Fohjem

Am I ready to date?

Should I start dating?

Dating is not a source of vexation or calamity. It will only appear to be such if people date for wrong reason. Many people have always considered dating as a source for romantic entertainment for male and female. For others, dating is a love affair, good dinner and goodbye kisses.

However, when carried out cautiously, dating is a legitimate way for people of the opposite sex to know each other as regard to future plans. And in most cases this will have to do with making the right choice for a life-time partner. This is so because, without dating someone or having a courtship, you won't really have a better mastery of him, what the person feels like or his and bad moments.

If you are ready to start dating, they are many things to consider before conclusion which am going to explain below. But to be on the safe side, it's always good to at least do it for a purpose and date the person for some period of time.

The bloom of youth

Youths are in the vulnerable period of life termed the bloom of youth. During this period, it is usual that they may feel powerful surges of sexual desire. I see nothing wrong with that as all adults have passed through it and so it's weird for a young person to do so as well, but therein lies a problem with teenage dating.

Until they are able to control these feelings, dating for such youths can be very chancy. Yes it's very correct that not all youths end up having sexual relations, but some still get it the tough way with no way back.

Am I ready to date if prepared?

If you are someone who knows and can manage your emotions then you can switch to another article but if you are still struggling with your emotions then read further to know what is required of you and also understand how to be poised when with your date.

Learning to be poised around your date is completely free and easy. The one and easiest approach of it is nothing more than having many type of friends, old and young, single and married, male and female. If you can manage to acquire some friends of these types, you will not only enjoy and share their experiences but you will learn to be poised especially with those of the opposite gender (your date).

Another step is by associating with marriage couples. In this way you will learn a more realistic view of marriage life so that later on you will be more prepared and ready to date for a better purpose and this is so because behind any successful dating there must be a purpose. and another reason for this association is due to the fact that most marriages if not all of them start by dating so they can share this experience with you.

So based on all these illustrations above, you will see that dating without having enough knowledge of it, your purpose, your age, or to not please someone or get to a social group will likely to result in just fun. Nothing is bad to have fun. The problem is that, the risk of dating for such reasons is just too high. If you are ready to date with a mature view of life, then it is going to be a great step to know more about your partner as well as the reverse is true.

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